What is family actually is? Family defines as a group consisting of parents and children living together in a household. Besides that, there are also some website define it as a fundamental social group in society typically consisting of one or two parents and their children; two or more people who share goals and values, have long-term commitments to one another, and reside usually in the same dwelling place.
So, what is family really is??
For me, family is LOVE. It's full of love, father love mother, mother love father. I don't know why, but it's fate when I'm saying that, mother love son more than love daughter and father love daughter more than love son.
Family is ATTENTION. Maybe it is because, usually son is born early than a daughter, so the mother is taking care and pay a lot of attention to the first son. Then, when the 2nd child is born, mother will still love the first son than the second son. So, father is around to keep an eyes on the second son~ When we are in a situation where mother/father was pay more attention to one child than the others, the others will find a ways to attract their attention. Some even, are willing to get scold then see their pamper the other one.
Family is JEALOUS. Yes, it is. Don't believe me?? Ok, lets me explain. When a mother or father seem like close to other opposite sex people, one of them sure get jealous. When a father bought one bicycle to a son who get 6A on exam, while the other son don't get, he sure get jealous. When a mother specially bake a cake for the daughter, and for the other daughter they just have a cheese cake from cake house, sure she get jealous.
Family is HATE BUT CARING. Usually when we are small, I bet, you must have said this, "I hate my brother!", "I hate my sister!", "I hate my father!", "I hate my mother!" Never lie, I know you do, cause I do this before. It's always start with you.... Yes, it's you. You fail on exam, your parents scold you; You pregnant while underage or make the other girl pregnant, your parents scold you hardly; when they are scolding scolding scolding you... and even worst, they don't accept you anymore. You said you hate them cause they don't accept you, don't support you.. But at the end, they would ask you to start over again, take again examination, take care of your son or daughter who is their grandchildren.. You hate them before, but see how good they are to you? You will understand their feeling after you become a father or mother......
For my conclusion, F.A.M.I.L.Y. is Father Mother I Love You.
So, what is family really is??
For me, family is LOVE. It's full of love, father love mother, mother love father. I don't know why, but it's fate when I'm saying that, mother love son more than love daughter and father love daughter more than love son.
Family is ATTENTION. Maybe it is because, usually son is born early than a daughter, so the mother is taking care and pay a lot of attention to the first son. Then, when the 2nd child is born, mother will still love the first son than the second son. So, father is around to keep an eyes on the second son~ When we are in a situation where mother/father was pay more attention to one child than the others, the others will find a ways to attract their attention. Some even, are willing to get scold then see their pamper the other one.
Family is JEALOUS. Yes, it is. Don't believe me?? Ok, lets me explain. When a mother or father seem like close to other opposite sex people, one of them sure get jealous. When a father bought one bicycle to a son who get 6A on exam, while the other son don't get, he sure get jealous. When a mother specially bake a cake for the daughter, and for the other daughter they just have a cheese cake from cake house, sure she get jealous.
Family is HATE BUT CARING. Usually when we are small, I bet, you must have said this, "I hate my brother!", "I hate my sister!", "I hate my father!", "I hate my mother!" Never lie, I know you do, cause I do this before. It's always start with you.... Yes, it's you. You fail on exam, your parents scold you; You pregnant while underage or make the other girl pregnant, your parents scold you hardly; when they are scolding scolding scolding you... and even worst, they don't accept you anymore. You said you hate them cause they don't accept you, don't support you.. But at the end, they would ask you to start over again, take again examination, take care of your son or daughter who is their grandchildren.. You hate them before, but see how good they are to you? You will understand their feeling after you become a father or mother......
For my conclusion, F.A.M.I.L.Y. is Father Mother I Love You.
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